make new friends  ·  seattle
About TBD.

TBD is a place for people in Seattle who want to do stuff — and want someone to do it with. Not a dating app. Not a social network. Just a simple way to say "I'm up for this, who's in?"

Post an intention. Someone joins. You go do the thing. The app gets out of the way.

How it works

You post what you want to do — eat ice cream, throw a frisbee, grab a beer, go for a walk. You can specify a place, leave it flexible, or let the group figure it out. Other people see your intention and tap "I'm in." Once you have enough people, you work out the details in the comments and go.

The rules

  • Public spaces only. Every meetup happens in a public place — a bar, a café, a park, a venue. No private homes, no unlisted locations.
  • Not a dating app. TBD is for making friends and finding people to hang out with. Romantic or sexual solicitation is grounds for removal.
  • Be a decent human. Harassment, hate speech, and creepy behavior will get you banned.
  • Minimum 4 people. An intention activates once at least 4 people are in. This keeps things social and safe.

Who made this

TBD is a product of Brunch Club Media, a Seattle-based media and technology company. We build things for people who want to get out of the house.


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FAQ

Is this a dating app?

No. Hard no. TBD is for platonic hangouts only. If you're looking for romance, this isn't the place. We enforce this and will remove people who treat it like a dating platform.

Is it safe?

We've built safety into the product from the ground up. Every meetup must happen in a public space — we don't allow private addresses. There's a minimum of 4 people per intention, so you're always meeting a group, not a stranger one-on-one. You can filter intentions by audience (women only, LGBTQ+, etc.) for added comfort.

Who can see my post?

Anyone who visits TBD Seattle can see your intention. We're a public community board, not a private network. Don't post anything you wouldn't want a stranger to read.

Why do you need my email?

Purely to notify you when someone joins your intention. We won't spam you, sell your address, or use it for anything else. It's optional — you can post without it.

What if someone is being creepy or inappropriate?

Email us at hello@brunchclubmedia.com and we'll deal with it. We take this seriously. In the future we'll have in-app reporting — for now email is the fastest path.

Why public spaces only?

It's a safety feature and a product philosophy. The Thaw happens in the open — in the city, in the spaces Seattle is built around. It also means we can't be used to lure people somewhere private. Everyone meets in the light.

What does "minimum 4 people" mean?

An intention needs at least 4 people interested before it's considered active. This keeps things from being a one-on-one situation with a stranger, and means every meetup has enough people to feel like a real group.

Can I delete or edit my post?

Not yet — we're working on it. If you need something removed urgently, email us at hello@brunchclubmedia.com and we'll handle it manually.

Is TBD only in Seattle?

For now, yes. We're starting here, proving it works, and expanding from there. Tacoma and Portland are next. If you want TBD in your city, email us.

Who built this?

TBD is made by Brunch Club Media, a Seattle-based company that builds products for people who want to get out more.

Terms of Service

Last updated: May 2026

1. What TBD is

TBD is a platform that helps people find others to hang out with in real life. It is explicitly not a dating app, not a matchmaking service, and not a social network. It is a tool for organizing casual, platonic meetups in public spaces.

2. Who can use TBD

You must be at least 18 years old to use TBD. By creating an account you confirm that you are 18 or older.

3. Public spaces only

All meetups organized through TBD must take place in public spaces — bars, cafes, parks, restaurants, venues, and similar locations. Private residences and unlisted locations are not permitted. TBD is not responsible for enforcing this rule but reserves the right to remove users who violate it.

4. Prohibited conduct

You may not use TBD for romantic or sexual solicitation. You may not harass, threaten, or discriminate against other users. You may not post false, misleading, or deceptive content. You may not use TBD for any illegal purpose. Violation of these rules may result in immediate removal from the platform.

5. Your content

You own the content you post on TBD. By posting you grant TBD a non-exclusive license to display that content on the platform. You can request removal of your content at any time by emailing hello@brunchclubmedia.com.

6. Safety and liability

TBD is a platform, not a chaperone. We connect people but we are not present at meetups and cannot guarantee your safety. You agree to meet other users at your own risk. TBD is not liable for any harm, injury, loss, or damage that occurs as a result of meetups organized through the platform. Always meet in public, tell someone where you're going, and trust your instincts.

7. Privacy

We collect your email address for authentication and notifications. We collect the profile information you provide (name, age, gender, fun fact). We do not sell your data. We do not share your data with third parties except as required by law. Your email is not displayed publicly.

8. Changes to these terms

We may update these terms from time to time. Continued use of TBD after changes constitutes acceptance of the new terms.

9. Contact

Questions or concerns: hello@brunchclubmedia.com


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one more thing
tell people a little about you. this shows on every post and comment you make.
post an intention
public spaces only  ·  minimum 4 people to activate
📍 All meetups must happen in public spaces — cafes, bars, parks, venues. No private homes.